We watched “The Blind Side” as a family Sat. night. I really struggled with letting M and S see it because of some language and se*ual inuendo. They were the ones that really wanted to see it, though. So I gave in and it was a great movie. Message was important enough to overlook the language and suggestiveness. I cried at the end and Tim asked them who was responsible for their future. Of course they said they are and came and got a big hug. My biggest question: Why do some kids go through horrific events and relationships in their lives yet somehow turn out all right, without abusing others the way they were abused? I.don’t.understand. I know I don’t know half the story of Michael but he was in high school when the family adopted him. My kids were toddlers. Why are they still struggling? Of course, their birth sister has a lot to do with that, but still. I don’t ask why very often but this is a why question that I just don’t have an answer for.